As your divorce-life coach I will help you reframe your divorce life story to include your past and the new future you will create. God designed you for this life and your divorce has not caught Him off guard – He still has a plan for your life. The crisis and difficulties you are facing now, or have faced in recent days, have a definite impact on your life, but they do not have to define you. Despair, regret, disappointment, guilt, and anger do not have to be your constant companion. Together we will work on a plan that is designed just for you and your circumstances—a vision for your future.
Why use a Divorce-Life Coach?
A coach is more transformational because it is a professional relationship rather than a personal one. Friends tell you what you want to hear, a coach tells you what you need to hear as you make important and critical decisions. When you allow your beliefs, purpose, and vision to guide your actions; you can be who you need to be for yourself and for those around you. This new understanding and direction will help you live in an authentic and clear manner. When you execute your purpose and vision with daily actions in your life then you will stay true to your values, your purpose, and your core beliefs.
Change your Future Script
Each of us will choose how we respond to our life and circumstances. If you have ever seen a digital photo frame as it rotates through photos one-by-one, it is like watching a life movie. This is exactly what our coaches help you to grasp, albeit one photo at a time. This life is your story – it is your movie. You can’t change the past script but YOU can change the future script. Having worked with literally thousands of people , Sandra asks her clients these three centered questions as they reflect on their lives: 1) did I live; 2) did I love; 3) did I matter?
Let’s not get to the end and ask these questions – let’s ask those questions and seek their answers daily – Let’s Live Today! In John 10:10 Jesus says, “I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.” Divorce is a part of your story, but your story does NOT end there.
Which shapes make up your divorce?
Sandra will ask: "How has divorce shaped you in these areas?"
- In your financial life
- In your parenting life
- In your spiritual life
- In your emotional life
- In your physical life
- In your single-again life
- In your health life
- In your friendships/relationships life
And through this life inventory, we will identify the areas you want to change. We will help you begin directing your life by living intentionally with a well-defined plan.
Your Life is Waiting on You!
Divorce changes life stories. Characters or possessions are added or taken away. Relationships shift. Daily routines are undone. Long term roles are altered. Before divorce, your life was structured around many identities, one of which was a spouse. Now the role of ‘spouse’ has to be rewritten, preferably in a way that doesn’t obliterate the good memories. Emerge Victorious coaching is about creating something different in spite of where you have been and moving away from blame, guilt and a life of “should have gotten or not gotten.” It is about taking action to make the changes that will improve your life, your attitude, your vision, and your future with intentional motivation that comes from reflections of what you truly want, not what you think you “ought to want” or ought to get.” Invest in your own personal growth and well-being – your life is waiting on you.
It is time to begin writing the next chapter in your life story, my friend.
You too can EMERGE VICTORIOUS!